Dating Site needed: sftwre selection, cusomtization, hosting, webmstr main svs

**Our new non-for-profit needs help setting up a "dating type" web site for our members to communicate between each other. We need a "technical outsourced partner" to understand our needs, help us select the best dating site software to purchase (we'll buy it --- lots to choose from !!), config the platform to fit our needs, either do the hosting or find some hosting service to host it, and be available for ongoing maint and support. We need someone that also understands and has worked with PayPal, backend databases, etc.**