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Hello! I am starting a new Zen Cart Business, and I would like to have a referral program with redeemable points on my site. For example, the referring customer would give their login name (or something that can be easily personalized from person to person) to their friends. Then their friends would use that "code" in order for the referring customer to accumulate reward points. However, the referring customer would only get points after their friend purchased a product. Later, we want people to be able to redeem their accumulated points for prizes. Is this possible? Also, we would like to automate the redeeming process, where the points are automatically taken away when the user wants their prize. We also want their prize order to come in just like a regular order. Or must we do everything manually, where the user has to submit a form telling us what prize they want, and then we manually take away the points? I haven't been able to find anything like this ANYWHERE!!! The only similar program is from [login to view URL] (JAM), and they are specifically made for commisiions and affiliates and such. I would be your best friend for life if you could help me out... lol. Just point me in the right direction, I'M BEGGING HERE!!! Sorry, I know this is all a bit convoluted and confusing. Thank you so much for your help! I am very grateful!!